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Contact me for a private session, visit www.robertjamescoaching.com/contact This podcast is all about OCD and anxiety and how we can have a better relationship with it. If you struggle with OCD or another anxiety disorder and want to learn how to manage it better, then this podcast is for you.
Episodes

Thursday Aug 28, 2025
OCD Sleep Meditation: Release Anxiety Before Bed
Thursday Aug 28, 2025
Thursday Aug 28, 2025
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Robert James leads a short, compassionate sleep meditation designed for people with OCD, focusing on gentle breathing, body awareness, and accepting intrusive thoughts without judgment.
Use imagery of white light, floating leaves, and progressive relaxation to soften tension, release the demand for sleep, and allow your mind and body to rest
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
Trapped by Reassurance: The Hidden Compulsion of OCD
Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
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Robert James explains how most OCD compulsions are really reassurance seeking driven by intolerance of uncertainty and difficult emotions. He uses the crossroads metaphor to show why short-term reassurance keeps you stuck and why allowing discomfort leads to lasting recovery.
The episode covers practical tools—acceptance, exposure, and values-based action—and mentions a 12-week coaching option and a free discovery call for listeners seeking extra support
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Sunday Aug 24, 2025
The Trap of Doing It ‘Just Right’ in Sensorimotor OCD
Sunday Aug 24, 2025
Sunday Aug 24, 2025
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In this episode Robert James explains why trying to find the "right" way to blink, swallow or breathe only feeds sensory motor OCD and never brings lasting relief. He describes how these searches for certainty are actually compulsions and why they create endless rumination.
Robert offers an alternative: allow your body to do natural actions naturally, come back to the present moment, and practice letting go of the need to control sensations. He also mentions a structured 12-week program and a free discovery call available at robertjamescoaching.com for those who want extra support
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Thursday Aug 21, 2025
What OCD Really Feels Like — A Guide for Loved Ones
Thursday Aug 21, 2025
Thursday Aug 21, 2025
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This episode explains what obsessive–compulsive disorder feels like, how intrusive thoughts and compulsions create a distressing cycle, and why many compulsions are invisible.
It offers simple guidance for loved ones: be patient and empathetic, avoid giving reassurance that fuels OCD, set gentle boundaries about reassurance, and encourage professional support
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Tuesday Aug 19, 2025
Is It Relationship OCD or a Real Relationship Problem?
Tuesday Aug 19, 2025
Tuesday Aug 19, 2025
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This episode explores how OCD can make you doubt your relationship, how to spot when doubts are driven by OCD rather than real problems, and why snap decisions can be harmful.
Robert James offers practical tips to manage rumination, focuses on the core signs of a healthy relationship (kindness, trust, support), and explains when to seek help or a discovery call
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Sunday Aug 17, 2025
The Two Voices of Sensorimotor OCD — Which One Will You Listen To
Sunday Aug 17, 2025
Sunday Aug 17, 2025
Struggling with sensorimotor OCD? My 12-week Sensorimotor OCD Program is designed to help you break free from the cycle of rumination and hyperawareness. It combines practical tools, meditations, and structured guidance based on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. 👉 Book your free discovery call here: https://www.robertjamescoaching.com
In this episode, I explore the “two voices” of sensorimotor OCD—the side that wants to move forward with acceptance and compassion, and the side that keeps pulling you back into fear and frustration. Learning how to respond to these voices is a key step in recovery.
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Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Thursday Aug 14, 2025
OCD Is Lying to You — Every. Single. Day
Thursday Aug 14, 2025
Thursday Aug 14, 2025
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Welcome to the OCD and Anxiety podcast with Robert James - a coach and survivor of OCD. In this episode, Robert delves into the deceptive nature of OCD, describing it as the 'great manipulator' that keeps individuals trapped in a cycle of fear and uncertainty. By learning to recognize OCD's tricks and understanding the body's stress responses, listeners can find ways to focus on the present moment and break free from the need for certainty.
Robert also discusses the role of black-and-white thinking and the stress hormones that fuel OCD, while sharing strategies to manage these reactions. With insights into acknowledging discomfort and letting go of obsessive thought patterns, this episode provides valuable guidance for overcoming OCD and anxiety.
For those seeking personalized help, Robert offers a 12-week program tailored to breaking free from OCD, along with a free discovery call available through his website. Tune in to gain a new perspective on tackling OCD and anxiety, and empower yourself with the tools to reclaim control over your mind
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Tuesday Aug 12, 2025
Tried Therapy and ERP… But OCD Still Runs the Show?
Tuesday Aug 12, 2025
Tuesday Aug 12, 2025
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In this episode of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast, Robert James delves into the challenges faced by individuals who have tried various treatment methods, yet still find themselves struggling with OCD. Through exploring the crucial role of mindset in recovery, Robert discusses why traditional tools like ERP and therapy may not suffice on their own. Gain insights into building resilience, accepting fears, and reshaping your approach to living with OCD.
Join Robert as he offers a fresh perspective on OCD recovery, emphasizing the significance of changing one's relationship with fear and uncertainty. Discover how to move beyond the idea of battling OCD, towards a journey of acceptance and compassion, creating lasting change. Whether you've been through therapy, read countless self-help books, or listened to numerous podcasts without significant improvement, this episode sheds light on finding hope and understanding
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Saturday Aug 09, 2025
What to Do When your Body Becomes the OCD Battleground
Saturday Aug 09, 2025
Saturday Aug 09, 2025
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Welcome to the Sensorimotor OCD series of the OCD and Anxiety podcast with your host, Robert James. In this episode, we delve into the perplexing realm of Sensorimotor OCD, exploring how natural bodily sensations like breathing and swallowing can transform into sources of anxiety. Discover the pitfalls of trying to control these sensations, and learn about the empowering journey of rebuilding trust with your own body.
Robert shares insights into the disconnection Sensorimotor OCD creates, leading to feelings of sadness, anxiety, and even grief. Rather than seeking a quick fix or allowing hyper-awareness to dominate, the episode guides you toward a compassionate approach that emphasizes curiosity and acceptance over control.
If you find yourself struggling, Robert offers a supportive hand through his Sensorimotor OCD program, available for discovery through a free call at robertjamescoaching.com. Tune in for a step-by-step guide on how to live alongside your awareness, transforming it from a perceived threat into a shared ally on your journey to peace
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Thursday Aug 07, 2025
OCD in Your 40s: Why It Feels Worse and What to Do
Thursday Aug 07, 2025
Thursday Aug 07, 2025
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In this episode of the OCD and Anxiety podcast, Robert James addresses the challenge of dealing with OCD in your late 30s, 40s, or beyond. He delves into why OCD can feel more overwhelming during midlife and why this might actually be the ideal moment for transformation and healing.
Robert shares insights into the pressures and responsibilities that intensify OCD symptoms during this stage of life and introduces his Break Free From OCD program. This episode encourages listeners to redefine their understanding of strength and view this period not as a sign of failure but as an opportunity for deeper work and growth.
Join Robert as he guides you towards developing tools that go beyond the surface and help you build resilience and awareness, ensuring you're not alone in your journey to overcoming OCD. Visit robertjamescoaching.com for support and to learn more
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
