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Contact me for a private session, visit www.robertjamescoaching.com/contact This podcast is all about OCD and anxiety and how we can have a better relationship with it. If you struggle with OCD or another anxiety disorder and want to learn how to manage it better, then this podcast is for you.
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Saturday Mar 16, 2024
Saturday Mar 16, 2024
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In episode 374 of the The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the intricate realities of living with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), busting common misconceptions, and exploring monumental challenges faced by those dealing with this disorder daily. This deep-dive discussion aims not only to foster understanding amongst OCD sufferers but also to enlighten those who desire to genuinely comprehend this widely misunderstood condition.
We begin by exploring a powerful quotable insight from author David Adam that perfectly encapsulates the inhibiting effect of OCD on an individual’s life. We then dissect the everyday struggles faced by those living with OCD, focusing on the quest for a 'just right' sensation as opposed to a superficial need for neatness and order. We also touch on the enlightening journey of self-discovery, self-compassion, acceptance and spiritual introspection – an often overlooked outcome of living with the disorder.
The episode further explores the role of anxiety in our lives against the popular belief that it should be completely eradicated. We argue that anxiety is an important signal to our areas of concern and a tool to enhance our focus.
In our segment 'Victories', we highlight the importance of recognizing and celebrating small wins on the journey of overcoming OCD. The episode also features my personal story and how incorporating small changes in my daily routine led to substantial improvements in managing OCD.
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
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Welcome to episode 373 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the significance of finding enjoyment in life, especially while dealing with OCD and anxiety. Emphasizing the power of planned fun activities, we explore how integrating amusement and joy into your daily life can be instrumental in promoting mental health.
We look at various research indicating the benefits of fun and leisure, not only for mitigating the intensity of obsessions and compulsions but also for strengthening bonds with people in your social circles. We also discuss concepts like 'flow' state, teasing out its significance in overcoming OCD and anxiety. Amid anxiety-inducing thoughts and repetitive compulsions, having structured fun can bring about relief, helping you refocus your attention onto more helpful and joy-inducing aspects of life.
Despite the presence of OCD, fostering a habit of indulging in activities you love and engaging in good-hearted fun can potentially enable you to reconnect with your authentic self. Whether it's listening to a comedy podcast, going for a run, or engaging in intellectual conversations, finding ways to incorporate more fun in your day-to-day life can reap immense benefits.
A reminder for those struggling with anxiety and OCD: Robert James Coaching offers free sessions which can be availed through their website. Also, you can become a supporter of this podcast through Patreon or subscribe to the Instagram handle @robertjamescoachinguk and Youtube channel.
This podcast episode serves as an encouraging call to action for individuals struggling with OCD and anxiety: to not wait for the anxiety to subside but to take action today, to live life amidst the struggle, allowing all positive emotions to unfold naturally.
References
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5597001/
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Saturday Mar 09, 2024
Saturday Mar 09, 2024
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In episode 372 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, Robert James shares his v insights on how breath work can serve as a powerful tool to manage obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and anxiety. Drawing from his personal journey and professional wisdom, he explores the transformative potential of breath control in disrupting cycles of anxiety and obsessive rumination.
Robert broaches the subject from a unique perspective, asserting that optimal breathing routines can remarkably ameliorate life quality. He expounds on the pivotal role of proper breathing in helping us concentrate on our goals, values, and passions, rather than dodging fears and worries.
A centerpiece of the episode is Robert's explanation of how to shift focus from trying to eradicate discomforting thoughts to anchoring ourselves in the present using our breath. He provides expert tips on various mindfulness techniques and meditation disciplines, urging listeners to make breathwork a part of their daily routines to boost their overall well-being.
Notably, the episode enriches listeners with helpful resources, practical breathing exercises, and motivational quotes to help them integrate breathwork seamlessly into their schedules. This leads towards fostering a healthier, less anxious life.
This episode also delves into the potential benefits of famed breathwork methods like the Wim Hof Method. While shedding light on its calming effects and anti-inflammatory properties, Robert graciously reminds the audience to always follow safety guidelines to prevent adverse side-effects like dizziness or fainting.
In conclusion, listeners are treated to the exciting prospect of reclaiming their lives from anxiety and OCD through these simple, yet ground-breaking breathing techniques. Still, listeners are reminded to approach the information as supplementary resources and not as replacements for professional medical or mental health advice.
References
https://www.wimhofmethod.com/science
https://www.verywellmind.com/abdominal-breathing-2584115
https://www.mindful.org/everyday-mindfulness-with-jon-kabat-zinn/
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wednesday Mar 06, 2024
Wednesday Mar 06, 2024
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Welcome to episode 371 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast – the treasure trove of striking insights, and empowering knowledge on dealing with OCD and Anxiety. Today, we embark on an exploration journey, aiming to comprehend the positive implications of exercising on our mental health.
We delve into a recently published research study undertaken by Australia’s leading university. The promising study lends credibility to the fact that physical activities have profound effects on tackling disorders like anxiety and depression. We decode the findings of this research, expounding on how the inclusion of physical activities in treatment plans can lead to remarkable improvements.
Focusing on my personal experiences, I elucidate the advantages of regular exercising when dealing with OCD. Physical exercise, while it may not be a complete solution, plays a crucial role in altering our hormonal responses, changing our mindset, and, most importantly, making us embrace life with a lighter perspective. These beneficial impacts of regular exercising help us to effectively deal with the whirls of OCD.
Moreover, we highlight the results of an extensive meta-analysis undertaken by the University of South Australia that included over 100,000 participants. The study underscores the potency of physical activities in alleviating the symptoms of depression, anxiety, and distress. More importantly, it advocates for the adoption of exercising as a primary treatment for these disorders.
The research establishes that even short-term workouts can bring about significant changes. It points out that high-intensity workouts generate better improvements in depression and anxiety, while medium-length exercises tend to have more effective results compared to long-duration ones. The research emphasizes that variations of exercising - incorporating activities like walking, resistance training, pilates, or yoga - can all contribute to enhancing mental health.
As we arrive at the end of this exploration journey, the realization dawns upon us that while exercises may not be the ultimate panacea, they indeed make the symptoms of OCD easier to manage. They bring positivity, elevate confidence, and subdue anxiety levels, thus equipping us better to confront and overcome the challenges thrust upon us by OCD.
In conclusion, I would like to reiterate that any decision to incorporate exercises should be preceded by a discussion with your doctor or healthcare expert. It’s pivotal to combine exercising with the ongoing medical treatments, rather than considering it as an alternative. Always remember, every step towards regular exercising is a step towards better mental health.
REFERENCES
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/57/18/1203
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2023/02/230223193417.htm
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Saturday Mar 02, 2024
Saturday Mar 02, 2024
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Stand tall against the 'Comparisons' thief that steals your joy. In episode 370 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the world of OCD and how comparisons might aggravate the condition. Discover the negative influence of your inner critic's constant nagging and judgment, often centered around comparison, and learn to lessen its controlling grip.
From the host's personal experiences and observations to Theodore Roosevelt's wise words, "Comparison is the thief of joy," we embark on a journey, understanding how comparison can mar self-esteem and escalate anxiety disorders or OCD. Furthermore, we spotlight the divisive role social media often plays, exploiting your vulnerabilities, and triggering exacerbating comparison habits.
As we traverse through each aspect, we also focus on nurturing self-compassion as a positive counterweight to comparison. Value and learn from self-assessments without succumbing to negative self-judgment. Practice recognizing your involvement in undesirable comparisons and choose better alternatives, focusing on present moments, and spurring healthier habits.
This episode aims to provide the tools to change the narrative about OCD and your life, strengthening your capacity for self-compassion, and finding joy in your unique journey. Join us to break free from the chains of comparisons and live life on your terms.
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
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Welcome to Episode 369 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, a platform that inspires a more positive relationship with anxiety disorders and provides insights on overcoming the control of fear in one's life.
In this episode, we unpack the crucial aspect of motivation in overcoming Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Discover how easy it is to misplace motivation into unhelpful thoughts and actions, resulting in a cyclic battle with OCD that people often fight silently. Yet, it is essential to realize that you're diverting your energy resources into the wrong path.
Explore anecdotes from different people who have confronted and overcome OCD, provided as directional signposts to keep you moving forward. You'll also hear about practical suggestions such as reading inspirational autobiographies and real-life stories of victory over adversity.
Delve into the underlying principle of forming sustainable habits to conserve motivation resources. By transforming vital OCD management techniques and exposure activities into regular practices, coping with OCD becomes less tiresome and more automated. Learn how to ensure your focus remains on the proper path.
Remember that recovery involves acknowledging fear while continuing to live out personal values and ambitions. Enjoy this guided exploration on leveraging motivation to free yourself from OCD's grip. And should you have any questions or need further clarification, please feel free to get in touch.
The podcast is available on Instagram, YouTube, and Patreon, where you can drop your questions or comments. Also, visit the official website, robertjamescoaching.com, to book a free session and commence your journey towards freedom from OCD and anxiety
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Saturday Feb 24, 2024
Saturday Feb 24, 2024
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Welcome to Episode 368 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast where we delve into the question - Is distraction always bad for OCD? Tune in as host, anxiety coach Robert James, takes an enlightening look at the power of positive distraction, mindful attention, and the concept of the 'flow state'.
Robert reflects on these themes by quoting renowned psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi and sharing his own insights on the benefits of engaging in activities that challenge us just enough to completely absorb our attention - a state known as flow. Here we not only gain relief from fear and rumination, but also experience the fullness of our lives, bringing us closer to our values and interests inside of our obsessions and compulsions.
However, while positive, healthy distraction can be a potent tool against OCD, it's equally crucial to be wary of unhealthy forms that involve incessantly keeping busy or forcefully suppressing fears which, in turn, often exacerbates anxiety and exhaustion.
Join us to understand how to wield 'mindful distractions' that are aligned with what’s truly important to us, how to bring more compassion to your process and turn your struggles with OCD around. Inspiring, informative, and eye-opening, this episode reminds us about the strength in positive distraction and the potential it holds in helping you reclaim your life from OCD
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wednesday Feb 21, 2024
Wednesday Feb 21, 2024
Welcome to Episode 367 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where we delve into the intricacies of reassurance seeking, a common compulsion in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). In this episode, we discuss how reassurance seeking can manifest in various forms, making it imperative to recognize and understand it to eliminate this prevalent compulsion.
We share strategies to spot compulsions, including journaling and mindfulness, which can counter the draining cycle of reassurance seeking. Learning to tolerate uncertainty and discomfort, subsequently fostering self-compassion and assurance, are key steps to breaking this cycle. A better understanding of how reassurance seeking perpetuates and sometimes exacerbates OCD symptoms, straining personal relationships and reducing self-confidence, will often lead to healthier coping mechanisms.
Demonstrating how reassurance seeking can be a trap, we explore both its obvious and subtle manifestations. Tackling techniques to identify and transform reassurance seeking behaviour, we delve into the practice of tuning into emotional states to better arm oneself against the relentless storm of OCD.
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Saturday Feb 17, 2024
Saturday Feb 17, 2024
Welcome to Episode 366 of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast by Robert James Coaching. In this episode, we delve into the often-critical role of compassionate courage in managing and overcoming OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder) and anxiety.
We unravel the concept of self-compassion in facing the often-debilitating effects of OCD and anxiety. Many of us tend to fall into the trap of self-judgment and negativity, especially under the grip of OCD. Striking a balance between acceptance and compassion for ourselves can turn this around. Self-compassion is a verb, an active pursuit that can significantly alter our perspective, shaping it to be more positive and forgiving.
This episode also highlights quotes from profound thinkers like Thich Nhat Hanh, who emphasizes that compassion is an action. We also discuss Jack Cornfield's words of wisdom about the non-judgmental 'heart of compassion.' We explore how practicing self-compassion is akin to stepping into a hero's journey, where we acknowledge the challenges, face them head-on, and grow from our experiences in dealing with OCD.
Moreover, it is completely okay to have setbacks and mistakes along the way. These can actually be learning opportunities when viewed through the lens of compassion. The 'ancient heart of compassion’, as Cornfield phrases it, is the gateway to freedom which involves allowing ourselves to feel and process our difficult emotions and thoughts. This podcast endorses patience in this journey to wellness, shedding light on how adopting self-compassion can lead you towards a better, fulfilling life despite OCD and anxiety.
Through the course of this episode, we look at dealing with OCD from varied angles and explore different approaches like exposure work, acceptance and commitment therapy, and mindfulness techniques. In essence, this podcast underscores the importance of self-compassion and courage in acknowledging, facing, managing, and learning from our struggles with OCD. It illustrates how transforming this compassion into action can lead to authentic happiness and personal growth
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
Wednesday Feb 14, 2024
Wednesday Feb 14, 2024
Welcome to the 365th episode of The OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where we explore how to develop a healthier relationship with anxiety disorders. In this episode, your host - Robert James engages in a friendly chat about OCD and anxiety while sitting comfortably with his feet-warming friend, Bruno the dog.
This episode focuses on how to tackle Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and anxiety without 'physically' undoing it. Often, getting over OCD involves a level of acceptance and a willingness to embrace uncertainty as we let go of constantly trying to 'fix' it thereby unraveling the 'knot' of OCD. Robert provides insights on how to improve mental health by implementing techniques such as acceptance and commitment therapy.
Robert uses the metaphor of the 'monkey knot' to illustrate OCD, detailing how trying to problem solve our way out of it can inadvertently result in a complex knot that ties us down. Self-compassion, acceptance, and understanding that we determine our own mental states are important tools to navigate these challenging emotions.
Further in the episode, Robert discusses the importance of finding your own serenity even in tumultuous emotional seas. This involves going deeper within yourself using tools such as the breath, meditation, and mindfulness to find that space of calm. He also emphasizes the importance of focusing on your values, embracing difficult emotions, and reorienting your attention away from the anxieties that dominate your thoughts.
In conclusion, Robert encourages compassion for oneself and the cultivation of emotional flexibility through the process of letting difficult emotions ebb and flow without attempting to immediately resolve them. He underscores the significance of refocusing our energies on aspects of life that contribute to our holistic well-being and emotional health.
The episode ends with a reminder that any material viewed or information listened to on any platform is for informational purposes only, and should not replace professional medical or mental health advice.
Disclaimer:
Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.
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